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Is Comparison Culture Stealing Your Confidence and Joy? - E14

Published on: 23rd December, 2025

Ishana, Mona, and Minali unpack the ever-present force of comparison culture. How it shapes our confidence, affects our mental health, and influences how we see ourselves in a hyperconnected world. From the psychology of upward and downward comparisons to personal stories about social media, motherhood, and generational perspectives, the conversation dives deep into both the dangers and the growth that comparison can bring. With practical insights on gratitude, mindset shifts, and boundary setting, this episode helps listeners learn how to stop running someone else’s race, and start celebrating their own.

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - Psychology of comparison

(05:00) - Digital age challenges

(09:00) - Life stages and comparison

(12:00) - Tackling comparison culture

(14:00) - Gratitude and mindset shifts

(16:00) - Social media boundaries

(22:00) - Family and sibling comparisons

(24:00) - Turning comparison into inspiration


Key Topics Discussed:

Three Takes, Ishana Nigam, Minali Nigam, Mona Nigam, generational advice, comparison culture, social media and confidence, overcoming self-comparison, mindset and gratitude, mental health awareness


Links:

How Social Comparison Theory Influences Our Views on Ourselves: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-social-comparison-process-2795872

The Stress of Social Comparison and How to Limit Comparing Yourself to Others:

https://www.verywellmind.com/the-stress-of-social-comparison-4154076


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About the Podcast

Three Takes: 3 Women, 3 Generations, 1 Family Unpacking the Questions We All Ask
A Gen X mom and her Millennial & Gen Z daughters share real conversations on career, wellness, family, and growth
Welcome to Three Takes, a multi-generational podcast hosted by Mona and her daughters, Minali and Ishana, representing Gen X, Millennial, and Gen Z perspectives. Together, they explore the intersection of career, wellness, and family life, providing authentic conversations and valuable insights to empower women in their work, life, and relationships.
Each episode dives into a thought-provoking question, as they share their unique 'takes' on a diverse range of topics, from navigating professional challenges to fostering personal growth and maintaining healthy relationships. More than just a podcast, Three Takes is a shared space for us to evolve together as a growing community, inviting listeners to reflect and connect.